Kota Tua, October 2012

photos by Iqbal Akib

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cubal? 

lidi? 

imyuut?

"What is your dream?" - Mary Stayed Out All Night

I've been watching korean drama titled 'Mary Stayed Out All Night' for these past 3 weeks. and I really like this drama.. :}

the story line is about an indie-band-singer named Mu Gyul who always wants to have a free life by never getting marriage and never having any commitment for more than a month with any woman. he becomes so aphaty to any relationships because of his mother giving birth to him at the age of 17 and never took care of him. so he lives in any relatives houses and never understand the feeling of family warmth.

in the other side, a girl named Mae Ri were dropped out from her college -majoring Korean Literature- because of her father's business going bankrupt. since her father were wanted by many debt collector, Mae Ri have to live in her apartment alone. she often feels lonely and miss the feeling of having a complete family, since her mother was passed away when she was 6. 

They meet accidentally in a car crush. Mae Ri hit Mu Gyul while driving in Hong Dae (Indie Area in South Korea). Mu Gyul is fine, but Mae Ri afraid of being charged in the next following days, so she go follows Mu Gyul to make him signed a letter of agreement. 

but..... as the drama rules, things are not going to be as simple as that.. many cute things happened. you have to watch it by yourself. I do recomend this drama sooo much! ;)

oh ya.. there are several fave scene of mine. but I'll share one.. I forgot in what episode, but the conversation between Mu Gyul and Mae Ri related to dreams, touch me.

Mae Ri : What is your dream? 

Will you spend the rest of your life playing music?

Mu Gyul : This is how I live.

Mae Ri : I envy you.

Mu Gyul : And you? What is your dream?

Mae Ri : I want to have a simple life.

Mu Gyul : Eh? That's your dream?

Mae Ri : Yes. There's a mom when I get home. 

I don't have to suffer from dad's financial crisis. 

I could go back to college, without being afraid of can not afford it.

Mu Gyul : You really had a hard times, aren't you?

Mae Ri : Aaaah... Yes! *wide smile*

and after the stuffy atmosphere because of the heavy conversation, they were kidding and joking again. what a simple end for a serious conversation...

as Mae Ri said that she wants to have a simple life, so do I. I also looking for a simple life, since my dream is living a simple life with a simple person. doing simple things together, going anywhere we wants to spend the time, driving all night, go working again in the morning, get back home after office hours, watching football match with snack on hands, commenting on them, go watching indie music performances in the weekend, take a lot of photoshot in amateur photo session then share it into social media. not only sharing picture or story, but sharing about how happy our simple life could be. 

hummmm.... but it becomes so much ya?

too much derivative for a simple single wants :))

whatever lah!

the point is only simple. 

simple. simple. simple. simple. simple. simple. simple. 

Plagiarism

Based on en.wikipedia.org plagiarism is the "wrongful appropriation" and "purloining and publication" of another author's "language, thoughts, ideas, or expressions," and represent them as one's own original work.

* then I remember in sudden, my fave lecture in KPM IPB ever told me not to trust wikipedia as well, since it shows your level of knowledge. .... unfortunately I'm still not that smart misteerr.. haha *tragical laugh*

This plagiarism issue may happened in any aspect of life. it could be in social media, journal publication, mini-thesis, thesis, quote, music, film, anything. That's why college nowdays also published their student mini-thesis, thesis and dissertation into web, so nobody may easily claim something not excactly theirs.

Still from en.wikipedia.org, plagiarism is considered academic dishonesty and a breach of journalistic ethics. Plagiarism is not a crime but it is a serious ethical offense, and cases of plagiarism can constitute copyright infringement.

pict from google

huumm.. so nobody want to be judged as a plagiator right? that's why we have to write down the complete citation for each information we use. We also have to credit the original authors for their information and ideas.

noted that! ;)

what if?

I ever posted, "what if I love you?"

but I wonder.. 

what if I hate you?

alasan..

playlist malam ini lagu mellow. 

1. Such Great Heights (Iron and Wine cover) - Postal Service
2. Semua Tentang Kamu - Audrey
3. Last Day of Our Love - The Bird and The Bee
4. Long Journey - OST Dolphin Bay
5. Love You Like a Love Song - Selena Gomez
6. Last Christmas - Stereomantic

niatnya sih menstimulasi diri untuk galau. tapi apa daya gak berhasil.. :))

hingga sampailah di lagu All I Wanted Was You - Paramore 

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cinta emang gak perlu ada alasan ya. liat aja Bella-Edward. apa coba yang bikin mereka saling jatuh cinta di awal twillight sampe jadi sebegitunya di breaking dawn? cuma liat-liatan dari jauh doang, sama (katanya) nyium aroma. apalah itu -__-

yang tadi versi hollywood. ada juga yang versi korea, cinderella's sister. apa coba yang bikin akar perasaan ki hoon - en jo jadi menjalar sampe sekuat dan sedalam itu? en jo gak cantik-cantik banget, nyebelin, tutur bahasa kasar. dia cuma kejar2an pas awal ketemu. pernah jatoh sampe berdarah2, trus dijahit, ki hoon yang nganterin. trus dari awal yang sepele banget itu, kenapa bisa tercipta kisah sedih bertahun-tahun yang menyakitkan pilu pedih pahit untuk ditonton itu? aaaapa alasannya?

sok-sok nyari alasan. 

coba hayo dengerin All I Wanted Was You lagi. 

atau lagu lawas padi yang dinyanyiin ulang sama donita.

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kok tetep biasa aja ya?

Grammar Class - 2013 - LBI UI

Drama! :))

sebenernya ada beberapa hal yang mau gue tulis dalam bentuk blog. tapi karna satu dan lain hal, secara berturut-turut dan silih berganti, gak jadi-jadi tuh gue ngeblog :))

beberapa waktu lalu sempet gloomy gak penting gara-gara nonton serial korea, Cinderella's Sister. fyi, gue udah nahan-nahan untuk gak ngelanjutin nonton serial ini sejak keluar mandiri 2010 dulu, karena ceritanya yang galau maksimal. defensive because of keeping the untold feeling for years. is there anything worse than this? 

tapi sekarang udah enggak kok. entah karna gloomy jenis ini emang sifatnya temporary atau karena tamparan realita di kehidupan nyata jauh lebih keras. (?) 

oia, kantor gue sekarang udah gak di sunan giri lagii :D

hihi. ini salah satu realita penting yang bikin gue mau untuk cepet-cepet bangun dari mimpi sedih karna drama korea. 

cerita tentang Sunan Giri berakhir di tanggal 30 Agustus 2013. 
Per tanggal 2 September, gue udah efektif di Penggilingan ;)

tapi fenomena tamparan realita terjadi.

minggu pertama di tempat baru rasanya beraaat. bukan karna harus tetep konflik batin antara tindakan dan perasaan, tapi karena di tempat baru ini malah gue yang dibully sama nasabahnya :)) emang kedengerannya lucu, tapi ini bener-bener terjadi. dan nasabah yang ngebully bukan cuma seorang, dua orang. hampir semua nasabah rutin, komen negatif. *mungkin ini karma buat si teler jutek*. belom lagi load transaksi yang jauh lebih padat dibanding sunan giri. dan tipe nasabah yang bukan "ibu-ibu Al Azhar". waktu beresin kas jadi lebih lama dan otomatis pulang jadi lebih malem. ditambah perjalanan pulang yang jauh lebih macet, mungkin gue kaget. dan di pertengahan minggu, gue ngerasa gak tahan. di angkot udah mulai berkaca-kaca, di jalan kresna jadi lebih berkaca-kaca, pas sampe rumah langsung tumpah ruah. nangis aja gitu berlinang-linang air matanya. bokap-nyokap sampe bingung. mulai dari komen "tuh kan. minta-minta pindah sih", "trus gimana? mau keluar?", "ya begini deh hidup. keras." 

kalo diinget-inget malah jadi lucu, karena tepat seminggu setelah nangis drama itu, gue dapet :)) siklus wanita emang bener-bener. gak ngerti apa cuma gue aja yang berlebihan banget sampa kaya gini atau semua cewek juga ngalamin ini. (?)

besok, senin. masuk minggu ke 3 di kantor baru. 

bismillahirrahmanirrahiiimm...

semoga selalu dikasih yang terbaik terus sama Allah.

Amin ya Allah..

Amin Amin Amin Amin Amiiin....

❤

lalaland

I don't have any idea about how could several things just come and cross my mind then leave and switch to another. may I just called it random?

Eid Mubarak!